Author: Oriyomi Olukunbi

Can I Get An Encore?

My dear Jack, I present 60 lessons from my letters to you in 2015.  I hope you take them to heart as you enter the new year. Here they are: It’s not the beauty of a wife that keeps a man from straying. It is self-discipline. You need discipline before marriage, and you need discipline after marriage. Pray for a woman who cares about you, who sees your success as her success and her success as yours. Pray for someone who wants you, who’ll be so identified with you she’s you. Two people, one life. Love is a friendship...

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Husband killed wife over domestic disagreement

The husband was home already. When he perfunctorily checked his phone, his wife had called him thrice. He disregarded calling her back out of malice. The wife drove in some forty minutes later. He saw Usman opening the gate for her as his phone went on ringing. He checked it. It was his wife. She was in her car at the garage already. What is she calling me for? Foolish and stubborn wife! He said and ignored her calls. The call went on for a while. He ignored it as he sat with the TV.Thirty minutes later, she did...

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4. Asides from helping to increase our pain threshold as discussed last time out,a healthy and frequent sexual life helps to reduce blood pressure, especially the diastolic pressure. By extension, a healthy sexual life helps to reduce the incidence of stroke, heart attacks, kidney and heart diseases since hypertension is one of the foremost causes of the former. 5. A healthy sexual lifestyle also boosts immunity. Research revealed increased levels of antibodies called immunoglobulin A (igA). igA is very useful in building up our immunity. Sex increases the level of igA in the blood,thus strengthening immunity. 6. Sex reduces...

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2. Closely related to emotional balance and emotional health is the fact that a healthy sexual lifestyle also boosts self-esteem. The quartet of hormones previously referred to are also involved in enhancing self esteem. Frequent sexual activities which release these hormones frequently thus helps build self esteem. Besides, the feeling of being loved, cherished and accepted that takes place during sexual intimacy contributes to self-esteem. Good sex, especially when it is moral and legitimate boosts self-confidence. It is important to keep reminding the reader that i am referring only to a healthy,moral sexual lifestyle because the truth is, there...

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God created sex for expression of love between a man and his wife (man and woman) in marriage. But just like everything that God created, there are several benefits, physical, emotional, psychological and health-wise if a couple can have a fulfilling sexual life. Some of the points that I’ll be talking about in this discussion are not only hypothesis or theories, they are products of research, scientific research. Several scholars and surveys have conducted research on the benefits of sex and the results are always the same. If an adult has a productive and fulfilling sexual life, there are...

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